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Why are so many relationships splitting apart

Gansta Marcus Now On Itunes's picture
on August 2, 2010 - 5:46pm

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Delance's picture

I'm just saying as far as relationship goes I'm stick it out with the LORD!To the Newly Weds' Good Job!
32But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord:
12But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.

13And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.

14For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.

15But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.

16For what knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save thy husband? or how knowest thou, O man, whether thou shalt save thy wife?
17But as God hath distributed to every man, as the Lord hath called every one, so let him walk. And so ordain I in all churches.

18Is any man called being circumcised? let him not become uncircumcised. Is any called in uncircumcision? let him not be circumcised.

19Circumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is nothing, but the keeping of the commandments of God.

20Let every man abide in the same calling wherein he was called.

zim bigest ti fan's picture

t.i.p is the dopest niger around .he gives the haters something to hate on

The Goon's picture

We have all lost the essence of TRUE LOVE. It is not enough to know the meaning of the word LOVE...... FEELING .....LOVE for one another is NOT as easy as it SEEMS ...nor ...SOUNDS...!
For Generations......REAL Love...has been ...somewhat Conditional..., and as long as there is some factor attached to it....... Love in itself.....is an ideal IDEA......that we all try to relate to.......but find difficult to express in totality.....
A parent with 3 kids..... therefore says..... I love all my kids the same. (but no matter how much they try to convince themselves) there is always a favorite child..... (that is the genesis of sibling rivalry)
The King of Kings in the Bible.......was guilty of that too.....! The First Kids from Adam and Eve........as was written........"Cain & Abel" were test subjects.....! The Lord prefered the offerin' of one over the other....... and the......UNSIGNIFICANT.......other...... blew the SIGNIFICANT other......off the map!!

Rarely do best friends .....feel the same way about their relationships like they do for their blood brothers, spouses or kin....!! Therefore......in an emergency situation.......say....a burning office building...were two guys each have their best friends, blood brothers......and wives...trapped in the building'; ......Each will have a different priority... While one instinctively rushes to save his blood brother........ the other may wish to save his wife first ('specially if they have kids....) .........the best friends of each guy may quite naturally end up being blown up with the rest of the equipment in the office!

It goes on......

The foundation sucks.......We are all in love with LOVE and the IDEA of love........but the truth......is we do not always ....TRUELY FEEL IT nor GIVE AS MUCH......when we ought.....Therefore...RELATIONSHIPS will always have its issues......as the circumstance dictates

B's picture

In a nutshell its because people want relations and not relationships (L. Jennings) they don't want o committ and be responsible they just want the benefits of committment and responsibility. It'll never work. People have their morals and values screwed up and they are not willing to listen or change. society breeds this type of people. Its internal. People are looking for handouts.
Advice: Set some goals to accomplish that compliments who you are and still continue to date. Make sure your goals are realistic and that you are honest with yourself. Are you a good partner? Are you insecure? Settle these things before you make yourself available so that you are whole. Most people have issues within themselves that they haven't dealt with then try to be with someone. Not smart. While you're out doing your thing that guy/lady will come around. Be patient realistic and honest about the decision you make to be with them. People don't do this they want quick fixes so they get them. Quick things never last most of the time thats why i believe people split up so much.

SASSY305's picture

MANY REASONS... PPL DONT TAKE THE TIME 2 GET 2 KNOW 1 ANOTHA, 2 SELFISH, NO COMMUNICATION, AND NO TYPE OF LOYALTY..

Alexis Carter's picture

THE REASON RELATIONSHIPS ARE SPLITTING UP BECAUSE SOME PPL THINK THEY ARE TO GOOD FOR ONE ANOTHA!!!!&'DD ANOTHA REASON IS BECAUSE ONE DID ONE WRONG OR BABY MAMA DRAMA!!!!!!

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